Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Mastering law of attraction

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"When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." - Paulo Coelho

"We can change our lives. We can do, have, and be exactly what we wish." - Anthony Robbins 

In continuation of our talks on the First Pillar of Rapid Body Transformation, we have reached a point where I would like to discuss the law of attraction. I've mentioned this in earlier articles and even touched on the basics of universal law. Now we are going to expand upon this because I believe it holds a vital solution for achieving body and life transformation. The people who are successful in life achieve their success because they harness the power of this law whether they know it or not.

The purpose of the next several articles are to give you a deeper understanding of the law of attraction, as well as, provide several principles through which you may further apply this amazing universal law to your life. Mastering this law will help you to clear the hurdles that keep so many of us from realizing a truly successful and happy life.

Since the release of the Secret movie, the law of attraction has gained massive attention in the media and thus the public awareness. Now many people may think the law of attraction is nothing more than new age, pie-in-the-sky, hippie, feel good stuff, but that would be a huge mistake and/or an erroneous assumption.

The Law of Attraction actually has some science that backs it up, specifically in the area of quantum physics. Although I know many mainstream scientists would not agree with this. Of course no one believed Pythagoras either, when he first postulated that the world was round. Go figure!

Most people's minds are slow to change until there is an overwhelming amount of proof to back up theories that deviate from the mainstream model of thought. Unfortunately, that's why humanity is so slow to evolve and why most geniuses are usually considered quacks when they first propose their new ideas... but I digress.

I am going to explain some things to you now that may contradict everything you know to be true about the world. I hope you will have an open mind about this and at least be willing to explore the possibility. I know that some of what I am going to say will sound pretty "out there", and I would be skeptical too if hearing it for the first time.

Yet, I would like to mention that what I am telling you has been the result of years of research, curiosity, study and my own personal quest for the truth about our reality. It is my own personal yearning for a deeper understanding of how the universe actually works that has led me to these ideas.

During this quest I have studied several spiritual traditions like Buddhism, Christianity, Zen, New Age, and Taoism. I have researched further into science, evolutionary theory, physics, and quantum physics. I have studied the philosophers. I have studied the works of successful men and forward thinkers. Now I tell you this not to brag, nor to claim that I am an expert in any of these fields. I am not. Nor is my study even close to complete. I still have a lot to learn.

However, through my years of reading and researching these truths I have been looking for the common thread or the perennial philosophy, if you will, that combines and connects each of these fields. What do they point to? What are the underlying truths that are common to them all? That's what I want to share with you here.

What is the Universal Law of Attraction? Speaker, author, and consultant Dr. Margaret McCraw, Ph.D says that... "The Law of Attraction, just like the Law of Gravity, is an invisible energy force. While we cannot see gravity, we can see the results of it as our feet are planted firmly on the ground. Neither can we see the Law of Attraction, but we can see the results of it as we correlate our thoughts, feelings, and beliefs with the experiences we are creating."

Think of the law of attraction like the air you breathe. You cannot see it, but if it wasn't there your life would never be the same. Much like the wind it is invisible, yet when it blows hard enough you can feel its presence.

Your reality, as it is right now, is a result of every thought, and experience you have ever had in your life. All that you have achieved or failed to achieve is a direct result of your own thoughts. Your life and your current circumstance is simply a reflection of your own mind, thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. You literally are what you think!

I told you, you would see this quote a lot!

"We are what we think. With our thoughts, we make our world." - The Buddha

How is this so? Can this really be true?

Yes, it is true! Everything in our physical universe, as quantum physicists now understand it, is made up of atoms and sub-atomic particles, which are merely packets of energy and information.

Your dog or cat, the tree in your yard, a rock on the ground, this earth beneath your feet, especially the stars in the night sky, everything that we consider matter and even intangible things like your thoughts, are fundamentally energy and information!

So, everything at the molecular level of existence is simply energy expressed in one form or another. We live within a matrix of coalesced energy, but beyond the matrix of energy there is a state of nothingness or stillness that is the source from which everything arises. Many call this state of nothingness Spirit, God, or even Pure Conscious Awareness. Some call it the ether or even the Source. I like to call it Spirit or Consciousness. Call it what you will, it doesn't really matter.

As Deepak Chopra M.D. says in his book Creating Affluence, "...the basic conclusion of quantum field theorists is that the raw material of the world is nonmaterial; the essential stuff of the universe is non-stuff." He then goes on to say, "All of our technology is based on this fact... Fax machines, computers, radios, television-all these technologies are possible because scientists no longer believe that the atom, which is the basic unit of matter, is a solid entity."

What this means is that every thing you see in your world, including yourself, is not a solid entity at all but rather a wave fluctuation of energy. In other words material reality exists as impulses of energy and information... atoms fluctuating between states of being waves and particles. What appears solid to the senses is not really solid at all. This is part of the paradoxical and illusory nature of the universe and the recent discovery of quantum physicists.

This is what Albert Einstein meant when he said,

"Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one."

Now, don't let me lose you here. I know the science behind all of this can get a little confusing and I'm not even going to pretend that I understand it all. If you want to get more in depth, then I suggest learning more about quantum physics buy reading several good books on the subject or checking out Bob Doyle's Law of Attraction, Program. That being said, I'll do my best to further explain this in layman's terms.

The Law of Attraction at Work There are three planes of existence; first there is the physical or material realm (think of this as the body); next there is the quantum or mental realm (think of this as mind); then there is the absolute or non-local realm (think of this as spirit- the non-stuff or consciousness from which everything manifests.) So, to simplify there is the physical, quantum, and spiritual realms or body/mind/spirit.

In the quantum/mental realm, energy exists as electromagnetic waves that vibrate at varying amplitudes and frequencies. There are higher (faster) frequencies and lower (slower) frequencies. Energy that vibrates at a certain frequency tends to attract frequencies of a similar vibration and amplitude. In this way, energy has magnetic properties that draw like energies together.

Now here's where it gets interesting!

Your thoughts act like magnetic currents that resonate outward from your being, permeating your immediate and local energy field, as well as, the energy field of the entire quantum universe. To grasp this, think of your thoughts as a radio frequency that is being emitted from a radio station tower.  Your thoughts (originating from your mind) are being broadcast all over the world and beyond.

These positively or negatively charged thought waves attract people, circumstances, and events into your life that mirror the energetic quality or frequency of those thoughts. Just like the radio frequency will only be heard by those people whom have their radio on the right frequency channel or station. Likewise, people, things, and events that are of the same frequency will be attracted to you by your thoughts.

In very simplistic terminology, like attracts like.

Do you find this hard to believe? I agree, if you haven't spent years researching it... it sounds sort of crazy. Well, before you start thinking I'm a whack job... think about these common observations:

Have you ever noticed that successful people tend to interact with other successful people, while non-successful people tend to relate to each other? Why do you suppose that is? Feel free to substitute successful with wealthy, or healthy, or intelligent, or the opposite of those qualities.

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt a weird feeling or vibe coming from that person, which made you uncomfortable? How do you explain that feeling? Could it be their energy field?

How about the attraction you feel towards certain people more than others or certain places more than others or certain ideas more than others? Could it be that your own thoughts vibrate on a similar frequency to those things you are attracted to?

Have you ever thought of something (a person, a book, a new product you have your eye on, etc.) and then shortly after that very person or thing somehow appeared in your life or that person called you out of the blue? Do you just rule that off as coincidence or is there something more at work here?

This is the law of attraction at work attracting people, events, and circumstances into your life that match the frequencies you are emitting through your thoughts, feelings and attention. Are you beginning to see how you use this law to totally transform your body and life? I hope so!

The Three Keys of Manifestation "Remember, you attract to your life whatever you give your attention, energy and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted." - Michael Losier

If you focus all of your energy and attention on transforming your body... sooner or later you're going to start seeing the physical changes manifest themselves when you look in the mirror. Your positive, confident thoughts, words, and actions are paying off in real results as you master the four pillars of rapid body transformation.

However, if you are taking positive actions in the beginning, but secretly or subconsciously doubt that you will really succeed at transforming your body... you've shifted your self-talk and attention from one of confident success to self-doubt and failure.

Thus, failure is what you will ultimately manifest even though it is not what you say you want and despite the fact that you may be exercising regularly. Your self-doubt will begin to cause you to deviate from the four pillars more and more. You'll begin the downward spiral into self-sabotage and eventually quit or not see the results you were hoping for.

For the law of attraction to work properly you have to be congruent and this is where most people fail. They start thinking positive thoughts, but they don't really expect it to work. After a little time they abandon it and say "I knew that was a load of horse $#!!." Their thoughts, beliefs, words, and actions are not congruent.

The law of attraction cannot work unless you understand this fully. This can take some time, study, and evaluation, which most people are not willing to do. There fore, most people fail. What most people have failed to realize is that there are three keys to creating this congruency.

To unlock the door and harness the power of all creation you must use all three keys in harmony. 

The First Key is the thoughts and beliefs you think

The Second Key is the words which you speak

The Third Key is the actions and deeds you take

Each of these three keys has its own creative power, and to create successfully... your thoughts, words, and actions must harmonize with one another. If not, then you will run into problems every time because you are not congruent. In other words, if you talk the talk, you have to walk the walk. Otherwise, you will not be thriving for long.

Remember how I mentioned that quantum theory proposes that every thing is energy and information.... Well this includes our thoughts and our words. Even our actions which are spawned from our thoughts and words are tainted by the energy frequency from which they originate.

For example positive thoughts and feelings such as love, peace, gratitude, courage, abundance and so on resonate at the higher (faster) frequency level or polarity, where as, negative thoughts and feelings such as anger, hate, apathy, guilt, fear and so on resonate at the lower (slower) frequency level or polarity.

In other words, if you have a negative view about life, you will attract negative people, circumstances, and events into your life that act to confirm your negative beliefs. Then when more negativity shows up in your life, which it will, this appears as the evidence to support your original negative thoughts. You'll then say, "See I told you life sucks!" You'll then take action or no action based on this conclusion.

In fact, as long as you keep your negative outlook, not only will you attract the negative, you will often unconsciously repel the good and positive things that life has to offer. There may even be tons of great opportunities around you, but because of your belief system you will not notice them or act on them.

However, if you keep a positive and optimistic outlook about life, you will attract the positive people, circumstances, and events into your life that confirm those beliefs. Then when positive things do show up in your life, which they will, this appears as the evidence to support your original positive thoughts. You'll then say, "Life is good!" and you will act based on this notion.

And as you stay in that FEELING of optimism you'll continue to attract all that you need to create a successful and fulfilling life, full of friends, happiness, and abundance. This is why it is better in my opinion to be an eternal optimist. I know.... Easier said than done!

Your feelings, thoughts and subconscious beliefs are all interrelated. Did you notice that I also capitalized the word FEELING? I did so because ultimately the law of attraction responds to how you are feeling at any given moment and the stronger the e-motion (energy in motion) the faster you are attracting. Strong emotion broadcasts your energy frequency more intensely. It is this intensity that has a powerful magnetic pull that will attract similar frequencies and manifest people and events that correlate at that level of vibration.

In considering this, just look at how an upset and angry person could easily bring out the anger in a person or group of people that they are in close proximity with. Their anger attracted more anger. A joyful person could have the same effect on people and consequently attract more joyful experiences into their life. Which would you rather attract? It's your choice.

"The law of attraction responds to how you are feeling in the present moment and the stronger the feeling, the faster you are attracting the physical manifestation of those feelings into your life." - Brandon Cook, that's me!

If you feel GOOD you are attracting good things. You are on purpose. You are right where you want to be.

Well the opposite is true as well. If you feel BAD you are attracting bad things. You have strayed from your purpose and are headed in the wrong direction, unless it is your intention to attract bad things.

So, our emotions can provide guidance to us by helping to clarify whether we are thinking positively or negatively. Thus, we should strive to monitor our thoughts and feelings to make sure we are creating the type of life we desire.

When our emotions are positive and we feel good, then our thoughts are in alignment with our desires. However, when we feel bad and our emotions are negative, then likewise our thoughts are no longer in alignment with our desires. We have lost our way.

If we can catch ourselves in the midst of negative thoughts and emotions, we can shift into a higher polarity and begin attracting what we want again. This takes some practice.

Whatever we focus our thoughts on with intense passion and emotion is what we will attract into our experience. So, make sure you are focused on the right things.

This is the underlying principle behind the Law of Attraction and it is essential to understand this law, if you desire to consciously create and transform your body and life. In the upcoming article posts we will look at several principles or laws that further clarify the law of attraction and provide ways to apply this to your life.

Until, then I suggest you practice observing your thoughts and emotions.

Keep a notebook with you throughout the next couple of days and see if you can be conscious of your dominant thoughts and feelings. Write down any negative thoughts, feelings, or self-talk you experience over the next couple of days.

Would you say that your thoughts are predominantly positive or negative? What do you desire for your life? Are your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, words, and actions helping you to achieve your desires or are they sabotaging your efforts?

Remember it is your predominant thoughts and feelings about life that are creating your experience. This is happening whether you are conscious of it or not. You can choose to create your life consciously or unconsciously. This is the gift of free will and the universe doesn't care either way, it only responds to your thoughts, words, and actions. Through the use of these three keys you are the creator of your own destiny.

I will leave you with a quote from Napoleon Hill:

"Man, alone, has the power to transform his thoughts into physical reality; Man, alone, can dream and make his dreams come true."

Brandon Cook







The psychology of attraction


Why the psychology of attraction is the evolutionary social, physical, biological, and personal process and. ..

The psychology of attraction is very interesting topic effectively determining the laws of courtship, the rules to certain people, the basis of friendship, and also the success of the relationship. Attraction is the social, biological and evolutionary process. We are attracted to certain people social reasons, how we may be able to establish social consonance with such persons. When is the reinforcement of positive social reactions between some individuals with repeated interactions, emotions, tastes, and lust, attraction may develop together with the feeling that comfortable with each other to develop fly. However, just as the feeling that produces attraction in some cases the strangeness or urge someone to know may also lead to attraction.

Therefore, as regards the social dimension of the attraction are two exactly opposite reasons for which the person is attracted to another person. One of them is the feeling of familiarity and comfort with another person, and the second is a sense of mystery or strangeness, which we can draw other people, and both of these social reasons are just as powerful in the psychology of attraction. However, the attraction occurs via physical and personal dimensions and we are attracted to people physically again, for two reasons-because the other person looks like the US or our family again brings in confidentiality or any other person looks very different, exactly opposite to what we look like, and this difference is attracted to us. Therefore, if you are a woman with very feminine features, you get to the men, who have delicate features, or to men who are extremely rough maskulinní facial and body structure.

In most cases, however, the pair finally somebody who looks like or have a similar level of attractiveness or simply remind members of the family, is the feeling of comfort or knowledge of another person when dating to date. It could have a narcissistic explanation like we all own first love, and can therefore only to fall in love with people who look like. Similarity can also be used on the personal dimensions of taste and hobbies, preferences, race and religion, and similar social backgrounds. However, sometimes a completely different taste, religion or background may excite us, and let's just say that these two different approaches to the attraction can work as some people in some of the other one second would dominate. This suggests that some people are attracted to the similarities and differences of the people as well as some other attracts only similar. Although very few individuals are completely different people and attract these people will novelty seekers. In some cases, if you are a highly individual artistic and kind of a dreamer, you've got someone much more practical, and if you are a high strung, someone to calm and control. Although the reflection of himself in the second, again, is attractive despite the differences, some similar features between the individuals can lead to higher levels of gravity. It's that we unconsciously attracted to individuals "who are like us, but not quite similar, and who are for us the opposite, but exactly the opposite." If two individuals are too similar or too different attraction may die immediately and does not provide a lasting relationship.

There are evolutionary reasons for which one person is considered more attractive than the other and the traditional explanation is that typically, men are considered to be attractive when they have the power, wealth and social status of women and men are evaluated on the basis of their views, which represent fertility. It is, therefore, that is the one who gave birth to the offspring, and he is the one who provides them. However, the changes of social structure and the men and women coming in the future, similar to the role of men and women would be judged in terms of looks, youth, fertility and social status, success, wealth, etc.

Younger women may be attracted to older men and older women also attract younger men, and vice versa, and it can be explained by Oedipus and Electra complex in Jungian and Freudian psychoanalysis, this explains why young men may fall in love with the mother of a young woman's new figures and father figures. The men, who are particularly to their mothers, can show dependency towards an adult female, and have some kind of fascination for married women, in some cases. Women, who face abuse or misuse in the younger age from male members may develop strong attraction or repulsion of similar men in the later stage of life. In some cases, young men and women develop the attraction for people who are similar to celebrities/famous people according to their choice. Sometimes these are not so constructive forms of attraction and must not lead to real love or a lasting relationship. So you best psychoanalyzed, and understood that these feelings of pleasure, could best have towards the other direction.

Laws of attraction may have a similar explanation in the case of homosexuality, Heterosexuality, and bisexuality. Homosexual similarities in other partner typically scans, because homosexuality is largely based on narcissism. Bisexual attract similar and different personalities. Strange that it may sound, repulsion may also lead to appeal, because the opposite is interesting as well, if one creates a strong hatred or repulsion for another person of the same or opposite sex, sexual attractiveness may precede or follow the in some cases. However, it will have more, to more complex feelings of love and hatred, which will require a separate discussion.

And finally, how can we understand or express our attractions? Of course, this is the science of dating and courtship, which is described in all date, guru and agony aunt. However, expresses the attraction is a complex process, even though it is very important and can lead to the interruption or creating a relation. In most cases, express men attraction towards the woman more aggressively and still indirectly focus on himself-could try to show his cars or brag about their qualifications and status. Men tend to "internalise", it's always "me" or "I" factor, which is in the first place. When a person says, "Hey, I don't have time, I attend" only, "Hey, I'm a big guy, I'm on a date". Most women will treat such boasting, immature, but women have their own way suggests that they are attracted. Generally, and women tend to "externalize" and the woman does not have to point out yourself, but uses her clothes, her style, her external appearance and sometimes flirtatious gestures to show men that is attracted to, women are sometimes more direct and clear in their admiration. Men scratching your head to understand why women use so much make-up or dress to impress and to show their bodies. Is it because women use these tools when they are drawn. It will be rather says, "I've got tomorrow night," says, "Hey, I want to meet you". Of course there are other traditional characters, her lover, red, smiling or laughing too hard, spilled drinks or break up, nervousness, restlessness, agitation, that all show signs of attraction. Usually these are signs of attraction rather unconsciously expressed, proposes changes in the brain when we attracted. Love is explained on the physico-chemical changes in the body and gravity, the first phase, some of the related changes also occur in the extended hormonal activity. Attraction is therefore largely biological and psychological process expressed socially considering the evolutionary perspective and is entirely based on the physical and personal similarities and differences. The psychology of attraction can understand who we can potentially attracts and why, and what we should do or not do (!).







New income from home by attraction. Network-Marketing

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What is Attraction Marketing?

Marketing is the method use to bring the attention of the world of your target market to you. This can be done through various techniques free and paid respectively. Google, Yahoo, MSN pay per click or pay per thousand are amongst the most popular mediums. Your web site, landing page, audio recordings, DVD, CD are all complemented. With the modern technology it gives rise to web 2.0 and is increasing dramatically. Articles, Social Marketing (Blogs, Book Marking-Digg, Content Sharing-Squidoo, Social Sites-FaceBook and MySpace, Video Sharing-YouTube to name a few) become the new track for marketing methods and is imperative for marketers to present and around where prospects are and looking for solution for their problems.

Hence Attraction Marketing is the method use for your target market to come to you using logical mind and the internet. I call this method The New Paradigm of Network Marketing. The paramount essence of attraction marketing is Positioning. Positioning I mean yourself as a trusted human being, position in mind, position in mind with others, position in social media, position in many locations where your target market find you. Also, Attraction Marketing can be used for whatever purpose like direct sale, multi-level marketing and network marketing, affiliate and niche and so on and so forth. But before we do that, let me answer the 'why' of attraction marketing first of all.

Why Attraction Marketing?

Let me ask you this first, Do you want to be attracted or not? Hey how lovely to be attractive ha! There are lucky few around and you are going to be one. This leads me to my second question, Can Attractive be man made or one was born with? Think about the film stars, spots super star, a return soldier, a preacher or even your mentor, they all become attractive because they got something to offer and that ignite and touch the interest and attention of the public. How does this metaphor apply to internet marketing? Well, we will offer educational marketing information to attract people to us.

The need for a new strategy is imperative to the life of our business to day. Why? Because the current method (the old school of 3-foot rule, friends and families, everyone is a prospect) assaults the attention and freedom of many people who are not interested in what we are doing. That is, we keep trying every one on our way to look or join our business. Many times they refuse or say no but back in mind someone whisper to try even harder. Pity you do not know what you are doing (harassment) while the other party already shut out and gone.

Allow me to confess, I tried this method with three different health products for almost two years. Guess what happen to my auto-ship and how many prospects? Big hole in my wallet and huge 0 numbers of prospects is my reward? Further, I lost few of my friends and many of my families refuse to deal with me. They completely shut me out for what I am doing. Listen to what I have been taught, the more nos you have, the closer you are to yes. Don't you think that doing the same thing and expect for a different result is the sign of insanity?

Needless to mention, this old method (above) encourage sure business failure, cost lost of money and worst off the frustration experienced.

Secondly, every business spend about 60%-80% on advertising. This is the most expenses you incur in your business. Why? because you need customers to your business. Advertising is not an option, it's a must in order for your business to survive. But how about if you have all your advertising free of charge? How about if your customers voluntarily come to you instead of you hunting for them? The only answer for that is with Attraction Marketing. It's free and you can easily do it.

What happen when You are Attracted?

Now think about this attraction method for a moment, How about if you are in a position your target market and or prospects show up at your front door? They want to know what you are doing. They want to follow and may be end up doing business with you. Many times they call you up or shoot you an email asking for advise. Do you believe this could happen to you? Friends, you better be. This is the new paradigm of network marketing. This is cool! No headache, no cold call, and no more hotel meetings, the end to week-end parties and you have a good rest.

The bottom line of being attracted is becoming attractive. Feel good now? Sure you do. Hence you are no longer hunt for them they try what ever they can to reach you. Also, you are no longer spending a dime on advertising but busy watching your funnel to separate the goat from the sheep. Therefore, let's go now and attract prospects to us.

How To Apply Attraction Marketing?

Good question, I am so glad you asked, because this is the action part of the equation where I will talk you through positioning as the very key factor of attraction marketing.

When someone need something to solve his problem, they read magazines, go to forums, surf through the net, do a Google, Yahoo and MSN search and many more techniques trying to find what they want. They just don't sit there and expect their need to come knocking at the door, not at all. And because they go out looking for what they want, they make our job far easier than ever. All we need to do is to position where these hunters come to and find us.

Think about how powerful this attraction method to the life of your business. This is the hot prospect. They come to you and you only deal with people who are genuine with your business type and like. You are no longer approaching people, they attract to you.

Let's start positioning:

Position in Professionalism

This is your ground foundation to your Attraction Marketing System. Because it needs to have it down first in order for what is following on goes through smoothly. This is critical to your business and extreme care is needed. Once they are in place, it shows how professional you are and hence, attracting people to you. There are four (4) ingredients to this ground work and they are related and talk to each other: Your Target Market, Your Domain Name, Your Key Word and an Email Address.

Target Market: You must choose your target market first and foremost. Do a research on which your target market is. Target Market is people they have specific problems and needs specific solution. They are really starving. This could be Health and Wellness, network marketers or in my case the 'beginners income from home business'. Once you know a target market and are starving; bang! your product is born and you give it right to them. Do not risk having a product first and look for a market. It is like having the cart in front of the horse.

Identifying yourself to a particular need/problem makes it easy for your target market to look specifically to you. This means you know what their problem is (what they want) and you got the solution (product)

Your target market is the specific group (of people) you want to communicate and deal with, Why? Because they are specifically looking for your specific product.

Do have in mind when you think about your target market, it has to be in line with your passion. Your passion is your fever and interest because this is what you are going to do and spend the rest of your life with. You are not going to give up or stop doing it. You'll love doing it and are a life commitment.

Domain Name: Domain name is the name of your URL. There is only one rule for your domain name: To talk to your target market. If you take Health and Wellness, may be your target market is "Loosing Weight"

Godaddy.com is one of the best to buy your domain from. It cost only $9 per year.

Key Work/Key Word Phrase: This is the word/phrase use by your target market to find you on search engines. For example, they go to Google, Yahoo or MSN search, and type in the key word and find you. Here in our example is 'How to loose weight'. You may recall the same you use through your research for your target market.

I sense the search engine (Google, Yahoo & MSN) found key word phrase more favorably than a single key word. That is why you find mine that way.

Email Address: After buying your domain name from Godaddy.com, your next step is to buy an email address as well. This is very important because it will show to your target market you play this game professionally. They will give you an email address like, Your name @Howtolooseweight.com

The above are four musketeers pre-laid foundation of attraction marketing system. They are linked and related to each other. As I have shown above, if someone (target market) do a Google search, the key word/phrase takes you to the domain name (URL) where the information solution awaiting are all the same name with email address like mine, Beginners income from home. One cannot be divorced nor neglected, and are golden rules in my marketing business system.

Position Yourself

In order for your target market to attract to you, you need to position yourself in a way for your target market to find you. That is, you write a short biography of who you are, what you are doing, where you come from, your country, culture, belief and even your hobbies. When you let one knows you as a person, you create some trust and one may start attracting instantly because they know you.

Do you know the reason why one buy from you or join your business? Oh yeah it is a good product or a well known trusted company. Not at all, people join You neither the product nor the company. They want to follow a human being to give them what they want, someone they trust whom they know. More than 80% of people buy/join you because they want to deal with one they know. They want you because you gave them something in value neither the company nor the product you are trying to sell.

How does this positioning work? Have your biography drawn up on your web page, landing page, introducing through your emails below your signature file, phone calls and personal contact. Allowing yourself to be known, you are at the same time attracting all kind of people to you but in this case I am limiting to our target market.

More about this in Social Marketing Category.

Position in mind

Patriotism is define by Wikipedia is that a person has a moral duties to fellow members. Meaning we live in a moral service to serve others. In business the same applies if you want to attract more prospects.

Always have in mind we are out there in the field to serve not to direct. Start by putting the other person first by getting information not giving information. It may break the ice with a simple question and when he starts talking you better be nothing but listening. Empathy is your next vehicle in mind. Riding with him, put yourself in his position and pay particular attention for what he is talking about especially to identify his main concern and or problem(s) That is the way we position our mind and he will open up to listen to you. Bear in mind that listening you are allowing him to open the door to listen to you.

We usually overwhelm because of the fringe benefits of the product, compensation structure or the trusted company we are with and many times take our attention as we fall in love with. Care should be taken. This can be detrimental to our approach. Why? Because the prospect does not care or like our product. He does not even think about the benefits nor does the compensation earn planning.

Hey look, God gave us two ears and only one mouth. Meaning, we have to listen carefully more than we talk. Applying this to our marketing, we need to listen to the customer first Stop. What is his problem? What does he want? Knowing what he wants then we give them that not what we have.

Always have your customer first in mind. Customer is the 'why' of our business. If we allow them and listen carefully, you are opening the door for them to hear you.

Position in mind of prospect

Please understand it does not mean how good your product or five tiers compensation earn the customer wants you, not at all. He does not want you. We want him/her.

People do not buy thing because of what it is, but they buy to solve their problem. Therefore you are harassing one to buy or look into a product that does not help him at all.

The very first impression one has in mind of a product is this easy question, What this does for me. Is this what I want? Please understand if he refuses you, respectfully back off. It does not mean you now have to try even harder and make more promises.

Sometimes there are negative responses and belief system we need to address in front of the prospect/customer. Go through in the following paragraphs and approach them.

Position in Negative Back Fire

I am sure everyone has come across negative responses so many times. People are shut off because they have come across the same product so many times and are not producing the expected result. They fed up with distributors trying to convey something different from their line of interest. They cannot stand so many promises of easy make money product without showing how to.

We cannot deny this fact and even up to now is still happen unfortunately. Kindly allow me to say this, do not try hype excuses or arguing back. Everyone knows when you argue against, there is no win loose situation. One stick even harder against the other and loose loose situation is the end result which we do not want to happen.

However, this is true. And we cannot run away from this sort of situation. If this is you upfront please be patient and please hang-on. Do not even try to avoid the situation. It could be a turning point for your business and your life as well. We do not want to loose one. We can walk through it right at that point of time and win him back.

Admit that it is true with a slide tone of your voice down. Also, be honest and straight forward with it. Say something like this, It is true some distributors are disturbing and I am so sorry for that. The main reason is lack of skill and proper training and hence they are not around any more now. Do not make excuses and add on lies for they will know it. Come straight and be honest and I am sure they can take it and start listening.

Position in Belief System

It is ethical for people do not want to deal with you because they do not believe you. This is a fact, they do not know you. No one wants this situation to spend and associate with one that they don't know off. Why should I? That is why is so important to get out there first and allow people to know you first. I know you can be trusted but it is important to take the proper approach. They only trust someone they know, be it yourself.

Position in Social Marketing

I mentioned social marketing in the very first paragraph of this article. Why? Because this is where the people are and moving towards nowadays for networking. Places like Squidoo, HubPages, FaceBook, YouTube etc people are socializing. They exchange ideas, looking for help and information. At the same time, they get to know each other, build and enjoy relationship according to each individual ambition.

There are enormous amount of people socializing in these areas. It is a starting point of whatever you want to pursue in these social areas like business, belief, skill, culture, spot, art you name it, they are there.

How do these social marketing sites help Beginners Income from Home Business? Well if you need customer/prospect, this is one of the hot locations these days where they are looking for information solving problems. The best part about this is totally free of charge.

Go down to these social marketing sites (www.Squidoo.com, http://www.HubPages.com, http://www.Digg.com, http://www.FaceBook.com, http://www.YouTube.com, http://www.EzineArticles.com, MySpace.com); sign up at least five of them to start off with. Once you have your account approved, go straight to Profile Menu, blug-in your biography with a nice photo of yourself. When people get on to these sites surfing for their ambition they found you already there. They move straight to your profile and taste you as a person of your type. Hence a sense of knowing you and trust is attracted. This lead to a relationship and they choose to call or email you first. They get to know you first at these sites and initiate a communication contact. This is where you want to be not only for success but to expand exponentially. Therefore, go back now to your profile, pull down menu and add your home address to it. This will increase your reliability and attract more people to you.

In the following section you will learn the content to put in these sites. Let's go there now.

Position in Marketing

Every one knows people are in the Social Marketing Sites to share interest and social with each other. At the same time, they insist on something they want and seek others to help. Importantly, many are here looking for an opportunity to make money from home. For us marketers we are here to market and make known to those hunters.

We have covered positioning yourself as well as how to position using your profile to these sites. Position in marketing I mean how to market in these social sites.

I am talking about the content of our marketing information. By the way, do you know the information we market? Yea, educational information. Content is King STOP. We are rewarded simply because of the content we offered. If we offer less than the best say a queen, prince or princess content, reward is only the reflection of what you give and please no more worries! Rewards I mean how people attract to your content and the search engine optimization results.

Many find it hard for them to give the king content. They doubt neither a prospect nor a purchase but could loose their valuable information. Hey, we are in service business mind you you'll not be altogether neglected after all. Your sweat will be noticed and will be rewarded in many ways. My Dad always reminds me, What goes is around comes around

Typical sales pitch promise, We will show you, We will lead you step by step, Our back-end system walks you through in detail. Look, I fell into this trap so many times. Your email was pre-supposed to fail miserably; contact replies come from an auto-responder and the product owner busy counting his money? This is my reason for this detail article to provide you this special tool to attract more prospects:

1. Your best product to sell is your information marketing system, not your product, nor the compensation plan. This is top secret to attraction marketing. Prospects want to know how they can sell and generate income from home? How they can make money? The obvious answer to this question is your marketing system.

Saying in your sales pitch, landing/capture page that you will walk them step by step or all trainings in the back end is not honest enough to attract one in this internet technology. Teach them decently as much as possible like I am doing it to you right now. Do you still remember what I am teaching you about? Glad you still here. Go back to the top of the page and start learning now. You will notice how valuable this educational information leaving no stone unturned teaching attraction marketing.

2. There is no substitute for action Your chance to harvest this gold mine will happen only if you start doing it right now at this very moment.

3. Be honest in teaching and give only the best. Honesty is your hot bullet to attract prospects all the time every time. Having said the best, I mean there is no such second best. Second best is the rough journey we being through and experienced fluffy products, over exaggeration and sales pitch that do not deliver. We do not want you to repeat this.

My passion is 'Beginners income from Home' and they are my main focus and concern. You are now equipped with Attraction Marketing Method to start signing up prospects and customers. Go now to the Social Marketing Sites sign up for your free account and make known yourself to the world of your target market to find and follow you.







Tuesday, May 24, 2011

The method is how to attract girls


"Know how to pull girls is fairly easy to learn. If you have a problem with learn how attract girls, here's a quick breakdown ' and ' what you need to around women.

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When taking a woman, you emit access demonstrates comfort.

(B)-body language

Learn language points and games. If it is giving signs of withdrawal, increase efforts.

(C)-Cockiness

Women are the locals who guys have a little above the confidence or cockiness. The game will be a bit arrogant manner, you must create games work attention.

D-news

Discussions or conversations are the key to building attraction. Make sure that you are talking about fun topics and avoid boring things such as work or school

(E)-excitement

Women are the locals who guys with their exciting. So be sure to talk about things that people find interest in. If you do not have a life, go out and do things worth talking about.

(F)-flirting

Flirting is the key to building attraction. Use call it flirting and innuendos.

(G)-head of it

Hesitation is the ultimate killer of opportunity. If you see a beautiful women go for it! Not to sit and think. If you do this, you might think a dozen reasons why chicken is local to you may not. Need to learn how to approach women its instinct, you feel comfortable around them.

H-humor

As cockiness, women love the guys with sense of humor. Try to use the "arrogant, funny" tease her and make her laugh.

I-interest

It is true that women go there guys usually captured in their interest. So talk about the things she likes, what puts you in a good light.

J-Jackass

Talking with a woman, to prevent any "hmortiim" like drunk or obnoxious behaviors. Keep this material for when you're hanging with your friends.

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The main attraction was created by the build up of tender heart and physical. If it lets you touch the games during a call, reciprocates the progress, you'll know it's local to you.

L-lifestyle

To get to the point where you can catch the time women in General, you will need to maintain a lifestyle that is exciting and interesting. If you have many tasks outside trying to meet women, develop what the hell are those that you are someone worth knowing.

M-many stories

And the guy that he is good with women always exciting and fun way to tell stories. Just sit down and write down all the interesting things that happened in your life. Put them into memory and then use them the next time you are talking to a girl.

N-agitation

Nervousness is one of the greatest murderers of the matter. Before approaching women, trying to relax, make yourself comfortable. Just remember the worst thing that could happen is not getting its number. You have nothing to lose and gain everything.

The knees

Instead of using collection lines, you must use the first natural not to spark curiosity and interest of the games.

P-phone number

In most cases, your goal is to get her phone number and how to set a date later in the week. Typically, you won't find too many female ready to go home with you during the initial meeting. I work for a phone number first.

Q-qualify for games

Forget any notions of trying to impress her. Instead create games work for YOUR interest. If she chooses to top the fact that you are qualifying games rather than on the contrary, is to work hard for your pet.

R"chemistry"

"Chemistry" is what we often call "chemistry" or "beat it". Without it, there is the attraction. So when you're talking to a girl make sure you are working on building a relationship.

With-sexual Innuendos

True masters in attracting women know the importance of sexual innuendos. If you are working with these notes into a conversation is to wonder what you like in the sack.

T-teasing

Use the conversation and a little tease her arrogant attitude. Common advice is to treat it like a bratty little sister. In other words, don't let games feel too comfortable with the conversation.

Uniformfor-

When you try to meet, attract women, need to wear your uniform. " If you're ready for a "normal guy, make sure your clothes, but they're clean, trendy. But if you want to go rock star type girl, wearing that will find this kind of a beautiful woman.

Kind of

There are some behaviors that increase the value in the eyes of a woman. Need to learn how to increase your value, will be the guy that she has to work hard to attract.

To increase the value, carry yourself safely, talk to women, lifestyle. The more you can do it to build a unique aura, more value to you.

W-Winging

It helps to be a "wing" during attempts to attract women. Another guy, can lend support to give assistance in accessing.

X-extra service type

Some women require a little more effort to get them local to you. This means that you must be willing to work a little harder to get some of you are interested in.

Y-you prize

Always remember that you have working women award. If you are a project of this kind of attitude, you'll need to build.

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Approach, attract women requires for the area.

Also and you have ... Is the "and" how to attract girls. If you can learn and implement these 26 all pointers, that to become a master in the stroke.







This is the law of attraction in action


These days you can find material on the law of attraction everywhere. It's in books, TV, Dvd and Internet. But until you fully understand and how does it work? Ever wonder why some people can be used effortlessly get what they want all the time while others cannot get even just as a result of the trip. More important, but you understand why it works only sometimes or not?

Because you think that you can feel and express emotions that you are creating already exists. With the ability to think and feel that you are using the law of attraction every second of every day that attract to you the life you currently live. The virtue of your dominant thoughts and feelings that are attracting everything you have ever been and ever will experience into your life. You are creating. However, opportunities are you create unconscious. If you want to be aware of creating man pulls and deliberately lives in the way you want to be-then you need to understand how to use the law continued.

You don't need to understand all the complexity of the mechanisms of Dafa, but essential to develop a deep understanding of how to use it properly. Many people do not understand why or how is gravity, but they know not to step off a shelf in a 10-story!

The first thing you need to do is create an intention. The intention of the having clause is not only the first step in attracting what you want, the most important and powerful. Without a concrete intention to achieve full you expect, you're not living the life that deire to live. Your life in the oceans of change together while they got this way and that depending on the desires, the intentions of those around you.

The law of attraction can be summarized in simple short but powerful. If this sentence were completely ????? this article is unnecessary, as are all of the stream and teach law roles. The truth behind the law continued to be quantified in short: you get what you focus on the more in life!

This means that anything you give your attention with the thought and feeling "you can have. As to focus the energy through the thoughts and feelings are running law continued and setting it in motion. Using law of attraction and then start it withdraw into your life more of what you focus on mind if she wants to or not.

In particular, you use the law of attraction unconsciously. Sometimes you use it, but most adavantage they enable the law bring you things you don't want to. For example, when you focus on the lack of money, bills, debts will attract more things that require you to spend your money, pay bills and debts to clear it. If you focus on the problems or the arguments in your attract more and more reasons to argue that the problems that worry.

However, if you set the focus to the things work well within your relationships to attract more things work well and create more harmony between you and your partner. If the positive aspects of your finances like a roof over your head, the Tsar, and job and money to pay the Bills, to attract more of these into your life. Basically, if you feel grateful things you have to attract more of them but also attract more things to be grateful!

You can also create a lyric for yourself. For instance if a better or higher income can imagine him start what I look and feel. As you focus on this mental image of each day starts which attract situations, circumstances and people to bring that vision closer to reality, and your life.

This is your next focus you attention to something that makes you create. Focus your attention must turn to the law of attraction. However, it is the intention that unlocks the door to using law of attraction is deliberately creating a life you.

Setting up a very strong intention because it forces you to focus on what you want and your lack of it. If you try to use the law continued to create more money in your life without setting a concrete intention to focus on feeling "so tend it and" that is, in fact, only focusing on the lack of money in your life. Most people fail to manifest something simple this consciously become frustrated because, due to the realism of their uses are focus-instead of concentrating on what it will be like!

List three things that bring you joy if they had in your life today. Under each of these desires to write a few reasons why it will bring you joy and make you happy. After you configure the country cause emotion feels it is assosiated with it. For example I'm going to be a $ 20 additional income, 0000 because it can take care of my wife's new clothes more often, family vacation, this will make me feel like a better and give me a sense of pride, happiness, achievement when you make me feel safe and secure in my home.

Taking these simple steps when you think about what you want to draw or create additional £ 20,000 in revenue you focus on the goal itself and it's not the lack of it. The more intense the feelings that are faster, he discovers. Now notice that I will not say more than you want, the faster it will go! Want something really keep it away from you. Why? Because the focus of desire! Refine your feelings about it, draw it into your life with surprising speed, this will perhaps even shock you. This is a professional but once you do that makes easier the next time.

Every morning and night, all to read the list of intentions and reasons for them. Imagine what you do when you have these things, most importantly feel how you feel when you have them. When you generate the associated with your desires and emotions already running the law of attraction, the expression of your desires have already started!







Taking advantage of the law of attraction


Recently while browsing one of the popular self-development forums, I saw the number of threads that have to do with the law of attraction. There were a lot of comments, ask questions about the law in this important and powerful.

Since the publication of "secret", which is a law of attraction, this apparently was one of the discussions throughout our universe! Surely everyone knows is now ", a bit about the universal law of attraction.

With these thoughts, let's discuss how to best take advantage of this powerful law. First, a brief review of what the law continued, what it does.

The United States the law of attraction. "What's it like in the cartoon itself. In other words, like attracts like. Your thoughts, your words, your feelings, your actions in a particular energy vibration all put forth, and thus attract you as energy ... Whether it be positive or negative.

And that the law of attraction is responding to you blocking thoughts and feelings on all the time, it's accurate to say that you are creating your own reality.

Fortunately, here in our time-space physical things in our experience not manifest immediately. There is a pool of time between when we begin to think about something and expresses. This buffer time gives us the opportunity to redirect our attention more in the direction of what we want to be really into our life.

Always plan to use the law continued to be certain that you know you or not. Because it integrates everything you do, do not stop using it. You are so useful that you will deliberately exploit the law of attraction to the achievement of what you want.

Since the law of attraction is always to respond to your thoughts, your focus of thoughts is very important. As you select mind, the law of attraction in the thought, as it will attract more thoughts, and this is "original thought" even stronger.

When you see something you would like to say, "Yes, I want to be him," your attention, you invite him into your life. Similarly, when you see something you don't want to experiment and you say, "well, I don't want that", yet you invite him into your life.

Where to go to the thoughts, the energy flows.

Our universe is based on attraction, place your attention on your vibration is included. What you give your attention long enough to come into your experience using the law of attraction. You cannot withdraw your life, what's good about it. .. Like attracts like!

So, will remain the subject of the bonosha of your choice and your mind to move a topic to topic, the gravity with which he grew up. The energy of your thoughts and one, rather than being scattered and weak.

Law of attraction says that what you give your attention you should extend. On the other, you should make a lot of things to ... Your attention and thoughts in relation to them. After the momentum took place, it is difficult to change the direction of your thoughts, what you are attracting.

Deliberate decisions about the thoughts you have, the emotions that you have, things ?????? spend, even people with. When you begin you will feel the benefit of the law of attraction.

Which summarize it. Give attention and thought that something is the same as invite him into your life. Therefore, you can take advantage of best law of attraction selection intentionally, intent, that it has positive benefits in your life now ... And what do you want to attract into your life.

When you deliberately into the sat, as you take action in the direction of your thoughts and feelings, the universe, working with law of attraction, bshabod bring you opportunities, people, events needed attracts to you what you want.

You are a huge magnet to attract to you the essence of what you think and feel.

One final note ... Remember it always be grateful. With gratitude and good in your life, rather than by focusing on this better than what you perceive as corrupt, that expands the vibration energy. You then open to attract and gain more better!







What you can get today?


A few weeks ago when he sat down in my morning meditation, from writing it, they came to me, what I thought was a series of "today I'm attractive".

I went and it is clear what I want to pull into my life ... That when we're not clear on what we want to attract to this end, we are always attractive to default.

Law of attraction is working at any time. Not only when we want to use it.

Hmmm .... Think about it.

If what we attract to us is the result of the thoughts we think, we are not aware of the thoughts we think, therefore, to draw him what we think, who knows what we'll get a consiously UN?

This is definitely not what we want to attract if not we set up what we want to attract. Right?

Therefore, I share with you the day it came to me in hopes that they will be useful for you, I encourage you to decide every day what it wants to attract you.

You can use these it please, add your own it consciously draw what you want each day.

Today I want to attract motivated souls make a difference in the world.

Today I am attractive people who have inspired me in business.

Today I draw inspiration and guidance to make the most of my day.

Today I am to attract new customers and business owners money and motivation.

Today I am attractive new income streams.

Today I attract new members.

Today I draw resources to expand my business.

Today I am attracting wealth, prosperity and well-being.

Today I love pulls a large for me.

Today I'm attractive.

Today I'm pulling the brightness.

Today I am attractive next to eliminate tasks and divine beliefs that serve us.

Today I attracts divine inspiration.

Today I'm pulling the love.

What you can get today?

What you attract tomorrow?